One will think social media will encourage and bring us together,it was supposed to be a medium to connect and make possibilities but reverse is the case.
One I view someone's story or win,I immediately draw some inspiration and encouragement and think about how much work was put into that particular success.
But that's not the case with alot of people especially the post social young people.
The pressure is getting real , people classify themselves as failure or not performing as there peers.
"I got into harvard" and everyone says yeeeey.
Then there's go someone from their bed thinking,am I less of human, instead of thinking,oh that person must have been hardworking, consistent and dedicated.
There's go another negative thinking,"why is that person always lucky and i am not" it is negative because its has transgress to envy and pessimism.
It has made us not to appreciate our wins and stay on our lane.
We are all made different, with our paths laid down.
Your potential is different and while that Person is in harvard you are here.
If you lay down your blessings instead you will see that you are favoured.
Not everyone is going to be rich,married, popular or so.
But we have all been given the chance to be happy.
What differentiates you from others is your contentment.
Be in competition with yourself
Be in comparison with yourself
Be in envy with yourself
Draw inspiration from your falls,pains and wins.
When you look at other people it should be for self thought and lessons not condemnation.
Do better and seek Allah's guidance.
Remember everything shall pass,even the breath in our lungs.
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