Recently when I became more conscious of the man's struggle as a breadwinner and the whole Male child struggle with responsibility and here is a take...
Men have responsibilities as prescribed by nature and every other institution,and that will have to put the man on some path in life,this is the path of constant struggle.
I see teenagers labouring everyday,very hard infact,some being tactical at very young age,they try to save,buy lands,start building and making Investment and this is towards making sure he is the provider and takes care of those under his care.
Commendable and may Allah make its easy.
Here me out, sadly do men even get their flowers or on the other hand do men even get moment to breath,feel and enjoy this life.I understand that men find joy in providing,but they don't give themselves flowers and don't get it from their loved ones.
For some oppotuned men,if they get the chance to retire,go back to their families,they get a glance of what they have sowed and toiled so hard for, some reap the bad choices they have made concerning families,some retire with sickness and their families treat them bad,the people the have built resent them and so.
For others,death takes them before the can retire,that long overdue wordly rest not gotten,and still in death you reap what you sow in terms of family choices.
All what this is saying is that, some choices men make in life should be really considerate putting together everything into play.
When there's constant concern of who you wife,it is indeed a great one,man dies and his wives canvass for his wealth,no single day set to pray for his soul,another man dies,the family cries for his demies and constantly pray.
The success of a man is ultimately what he leaves behind,his legacy is his offspring and what is the success of this life,the gardens which Allah will admit his followers.
I find myself again praying for men these days to marry good and right,and that Allah makes it beneficial to them in life and death.
Because truly, Families are built by men.
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