Recently the arguments,fall outs and controversies surrounding marriage is so much and funny thing is mostly from the unmarried folks.
Is this an issue yes it is,why?
Because imagine so much negativity before marriage in people's mind,how then will they make such union blissful.
We have grow accustomed to certain traditions and invention that one can't even recognize what marriage is again.
And consequently we have been seeing the negative effect as it is.
Why is that so?
Perception and practice of marriage as if it isn't an act of worship is what brought us where we are today.
We can't beat our chest to a peaceful society because we have broken homes,built out of long term hatred ,born out of bad practices.
Again why is it so? why have people isolated marriage from the act of worship to something else,if we want to be understanding, its probably because its a means to one of the pleasures of this life,and the goal or rather results is seen immediately,by results I mean children and Co.
On the other hand,acts of worship like prayers, fasting has its benefits more in the after life or not totally understood by humans hence it return is long time.
So people tend to not classify marriage as an act of worship, reason why we are perceiving it this way.
What it means is that this our current perception of marriage is ruining everything about it and becoming a cause of great disobedience to Allah's command.
Marriage is like capitalism now,
Manipulation at its peak
A social contract to oppress
A show off avenue
Zero accountability,No remorse,no reward.
Our fundamental problem with marriage will be solved if we go back to basis and know that for every good done and bad done it will be accounted for on the day of Judgement and we shall be held responsible.
Only then can be achieve success in Marriage.
I wouldn't even what to dive into current debates and arguments.
Lest I forget the whole brainwashing going on is another topic.
For now this is it
May Allah make it easy on us all.
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